Love Shouldn't Hurt and Neither Should Your Braids :/

http://www.stylelist.com/2010/07/14/womans-braids-land-her-in-emergency-room/


A North Carolina lady found herself waking up in the middle of the night with headaches, a swollen face and making trips to the emergency room-- all because her braids were too tight. (I pray she has health insurance and that the American public didn’t pay for that ish but I digress) I sound judge-y but I am ok with that.

Question: didn’t it hurt when the braids were put in? There had to have been warning signs that something wasn’t right before she was calling on the Lord in the middle of the night- before she made multiple trips to the emergency room and before she was diagnosed with a possible MRSA infection.

PS - MRSA is no joke. People die from that ish. Look it up.

The point is we have to pay attention to warning signs. Typically, things don’t go awry all of a sudden. There are little red flags that we missed along the way or simply chose to ignore.

Case in point (albeit a tenuous connection but you can see where I am going with this): Oksana, Mel had to have been crazy before he knocked your teeth out. I wonder what warning signs she missed? There had to have been signs of anger management issues. Perhaps it was the threats of arson and death. IDK.

Let’s be clear-- I am not at all implying that this is Oksana’s fault. It is never ok to hit a woman. I’m just saying that domestic violence is real- pay attention to the warning signs. Get out before it’s too late.

Last question: is wiretapping/recording legal?